Thursday, December 8, 2011

Thanksgiving Sunrise

I had a chance to visit the homeland for Thanksgiving this year. Not only that, but I was able to spend the entire week there. I have to say, having not spent much time at Mom & Dads house over the past year, it was quite refreshing.

These pictures are of the sunrise on Thanksgiving morning. What a blessing to be witness to some of God's good art work!

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Cutting Down New Christmas Tree

Tis the season! Last weekend we harvested our 2011 Christmas Tree. It's gorgeous, but good golly...just a bit too tall! Has to hack off about a foot!

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Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Potty Training Success During Website Update

You know, when I first started this work at home Dad stuff - I THOUGHT it was going to be great! I really did. However, I've come to realize just how difficult it is trying to wrangle in a two year old, wash diapers, and manage a new born....all while trying to wrangle in new customers to http://www.jewelloutdoors.com.

Yes, it is difficult. But in all likelihood, these days will come to an end at some point. Either they will get older, and be off to school and all kinds of activities (which will have me running even more). Or, with the career goals I've set for myself, chances are I won't always be able to work from home. So I am putting aside my angst about the work & life balance. Just as I had recently decided to do this something seemingly miraculous happened!

As I was sitting around writing new content for www.jewelloutdoors.com, I was also trying the "let's go without a diaper" potty training trick. This usually fails. But I was willing to try, try again. The room was quiet. Odd, I thought - 2 year olds don't allow such silence. In my mind, I figured Norah had gone to hide behind the recliner or couch again. Instead, she was standing over her potty chair. As I peered, she caught my glance and said, "yellow! yellow! pee!" Sure enough - she proved me wrong.

So, even when trying to strike the balance between working at home, and being a Dad that does this (and often gets frustrated), there are big victories to relish in. Good Job Norah! The big prize you've been promised will be sitting on the table tonight when Mom gets home. Chocolate Cake for everyone!

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Monday, August 18, 2008

Recent weeks have proved interesting as a Blog at Home Dad. It is kind of like gambling with how many hours you get to work in a day. Perhaps I've discovered my own new personal currency!

Norah is now approaching 7 months old (this weekend). She is cuter, and more fun than ever. Of course with growing older there are other fun surprises. For about a month we have been transitioning to solid foods and formula. Uffda. Without giving details I can say it has been interesting. Thank God for Milk of Magnesia. I am glad now that it seems to be straightening itself out - but last week I found myself working from 5am until 7am just to achieve any recordable work progress!

Nap times have been growing shorter. Mostly this is not bad - but I have had to readjust my mindset some. I was used to having two straight hours of work time during the day while she napped. Sometimes I still get that. Other times its more like 45 minutes.

No worries though. I am still happy with my decision to work for myself - and work from home.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

A Changing Sense of Entitlement

"The sense of entitlement, the sense that because we once dominated global commerce and geopolitics – and Olympic basketball – we always will, the sense that delayed gratification is a punishment worse than a spanking, the sense that our kids have to be swaddled in cotton wool so that nothing bad or disappointing or stressful every happens to them at school is, quite simply, a growing cancer on American society. And if we don't start to reverse it, our kids are going to be in for a huge and socially disruptive shock from the flat world."The above quote is taken from page 303 of a book called, The World is Flat, by Michael Friedrich. This book helps you to take a look at the growing competetiveness of developing countries in the world, how the business of communication is allowing these countries to work for and against us, and how on a global scale of competetiveness--we're in trouble(if we don't buck up).

As Americans in over the better part of the last century we have known a world where we are on top, no questions asked. Our predecessors and fellow countrymen have always outworked, out smarted, and out fought the rest of the world. In a way, we have had a quiet sense of security that only we could do this. According to Friedrich, that quiet sense is a poison that could potentially knock us off our pedestal in world standing. I have a tendency to agree with this part of the book, especially after two years of work in the public education system! Kids in high school today (and 8 years ago when I was there) believe they are entitled to some thing they have never had to fight for. Unfortunately in our lifetime I believe this is an attitude from which we will all have a rude awakening, and we may have to fight for our standing all over again.

Decades ago it was widely believed impossible for a runner would be able to run a mile in less that four minutes. A barrier was created around that four minute mark that blocked runner after runner! Finally, Roger Bannister (not an American) came along in 1954 ignoring the barrier and ran the world's first sub-four minute mile. Now get this: within two years more than 30 additional runners also broke the record! The barrier was smashed and the flood gates opened for anyone that wanted to work hard enough. World competetiveness is not all that different in my opinion. The United States has been dominating the planet ignoring and smashing all kinds of barriers, leading the way. Should you now be surprised that other countries are catching up faster, and even exceeding Americans on many levels? I don't think so. You should be strategizing about how you are going to prepare your kid for the changing world and enstilling in them the work ethic that surpasses that of our competitors--we need to erase the entitlement mentality from our country's young people. (Subsequently the current record for the mile is three minutes and forty three seconds...set by Hicham El Guerrouj who is also not an American.)

As we march into another year we are about to embrace one of America's great priveleges - the election of another president. We now have a responsibility to select a leader that will be challenged with the work of removing this sense of entitlement and installing a system of progress. It will mean more than breaking down barriers between political parties, or balancing a budget. The next four years needs to contain a beginning to a new rejuvenation of 'go get it' mentality in America. Ronald Regan said, "All great change in America begins at the dinner table." We need to select a leader that will start by restoring respect to family values, someone that will stand for what is right and not necessarily what we'd like. We need a leader that puts less emphasis on big government and more power back into the family and local leaders. If we select a President that will increase taxes to pay for all their campaign promises, we begin turning our power over to the Feds and therefore reducing our own need (or our kid's need) to work hard and define our own destiny. Do you think the young scholar in India who will work for years earning pennies just to have a chance at getting your job someday cares about your salary or house payment? The answer is no! They have the same financial problems that you and I do. In the world today developing countries have seen us break down barriers for decades, and now they are fighting for their chance! If you think they are going to stop just because America has been outworking everyone in the last 100 years, you are mistaken; we are not entitled to anything. We need to select a leader that can motivate Americans to get off their obese emotional issues and start creating a new change from the grass roots levels.

This year we are going to be inundated with television ads, CNN reports, Presidential debates, yards signs, and more. You'll be tempted to say, "I'm so sick of all this political B.S." This is completely understandable as everything has its very own marginal point of return. However, I urge you to take an active role in your local political process. You might jump in and work on your favorite candidate's campaign, perhaps you'll donate money, maybe you'll take a stand for your beliefs and try to motivate others. Which ever way you do it, I emplore you to get involved! This is a great privelege, and an opportunity in 2008 to be a part of great change in America. Your attitude towards the political process this year is going to be mirrored in your children and friends in the coming years. Take a moment to think about the priveleges we have as Americans and ask yourself, "Do I want others to take this for granted?" It is time to get active and stand for what you believe in, or at least stand for what your children will believe in...after all we're entitled to nothing.

Sunday, February 10, 2008

Cloth Diaper Adventure

"Ooh, you're brave!" is the number one response Vanessa and I have received thus far when we let people know that we have elected cloth diapers. Is this so...are we really all that brave? I guess so, because that is what everyone keeps telling us. Let's quickly discuss the benefits though.

First, two words: Carbon Footprint? Lots of folks are going green these days, and it is not because St. Paddy's day is just around the corner. Environment is important, kinda like life...we only get one. So tell me what Huggies is doing to help that? Perhaps they are researching the course of folding a diaper that degrades quickly. Super. My Mom (and millions of moms before) had it right. One word: Cloth.

Next Argument: Cost. Estimated investment in cloth diapers and related equipment (good for 3-4 kids): $400-$475. Estimated cost of raising a kid in disposable diapers until the age of 2: $2,000! Need I say more?

But isn't it harder to use Cloth than disposable diapers?
Another myth busted. I have been timing myself (because I can) and have found that I can disengage the diaper, wipe, clean, powder or cream, and strap a clean linen on in less than 3 minutes. I have only been a Dad for 13 days at this point...just imagine where we can go with that.

But you have to wash them...
So what? You explain to your kid why you chose to use environmentally unfriendly butt wraps, when someday their kid's new school building couldn't be built because the construction company sucked up a bag of huggies while drilling for it's underground water source.

Thursday, February 7, 2008

Happiness is not a goal; it is a by-product

At 8:02am on Tuesday, January 29th little Ms. Norah Elizabeth Jewell joined our world. She weighed seven pounds and two ounces, measuring 20.25 inches long. The beginnings of higher cover most of her wonderfully shaped head, there are ten fingers and toes, and a healthy set of lungs! Just as dozens of friends, family members, and even strangers have predicted - Life has changed.

This is a change for the better. The litmus test that assures me this is better comes from many lessons learned in my own upbringing. That test? This is hard! I was taught that in order for something to be worth while it should be hard, or at least a hard decision. Not everyone would do this if it were in fact easy, and after one week of fatherhood I can verify the hardness of this test. However, there is one addition. You know something is worth while if it is hard to do, but you also feel good doing it! I have never felt like this, and that is why I know this change is so great.

Little Norah is a beauty. She is worth it, no matter how hard, and I know in the end of each segment of the day that I am in fact happy. As I look back on it, when we decided to have a baby we weren't necessarily seeking happiness. We were seeking something that we would both share in. This was to be a family project, and we would both participate fully to raise this little being (As if two Black Labs and a cat weren't enough). As a by-product we are now receiving happiness for something we chose to do together - out of love.